Long Lasting Bond

 

How does the bond last? What do you think it is all about sacrifices and love? No, that is a part of it, but how can we replace a mistake? Oh, come on! Mistakes are made by each one of us. No matter how hard we try. So think how will you balance your bond? Think,think, think. Ok, I'll tell you. If we make a mistake, we will either show our ego and say, "It was not my fault". Or we will curse ourself saying,"It all happened because of me". We just do it to save our friendships and relationships. What can we do? Instead of proving right and wrong, why don't we talk to the person  about the problems? Why don't we equalise it. Like mothers do for their children. They hit them when they are wrong, but later they equalise them with a hug or by loving them or by treating them with something. That doesn't mean she is teaching something wrong. Remember no one is bad or good. We all have learnt something from the other person. There must be something where they might have supported us a lot. What one can do before departing from someone is, look back and see whether the person really did not care about you or not. I am sure you will see few beautiful things which are irreplaceable by others. 

Why can't we stay with the same person?  Remember, it should be from both the sides, but if it is one side then we have to let the opposite realise the value of loving person. I know we feel so pity for falling person, so much so that we take their blame on us. That's where we are mistaken. Do you remember, when a child walks for the first time they fall, don't you think mother's get hurt by seeing them ? Then why don't few mother's don't pick up their child? Because they know someday they will learn to walk by falling. Always remember, whenever required, learn to make other person realise about their mistakes. Don't do it by telling them, make them feel softly and make them learn, without overprotecting them.